August 8, 2007
Stewardess raped in hotel room ( part 2 )
A group of rapist in jail was interviewed how they choose a potential victim…. and this is what they disclose…. ready?
Here are the interesting findings…..
1. Hairstyle. They go for women with long hair. Ponytail, bun, braid or any hairstyle that they can easily grab. Women with short hair are not common targets. 2. Clothing. They look for women who’s clothing are easy to remove without much struggle.
3. Distracted women. An easy target will be women who are using their cell phone, searching thru their bag or doing other activities while walking. Reason being these women are off guard and easily overpowered.
4. They are most likely to attack and rape in the early morning hours of 5.30am - 8.30am.
These rapist also reveal that …..
A) They would not pick on women who carries an umbrella or any other object that can be use from a distance.
B) If you put up any fight they get discourage because it isn’t worth it for them. Its too time consuming.
C) When they come towards you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell … STOP , STAY BACK!
Most of the rapist say they will leave a women alone if they know the women is not afraid to fight back. They are looking for easy target.
Did you know that only 2% of rapist carry any weapon with them? Rape carries a 3 - 5 years jail term but rape with weapon is 15 - 20 years. Having said that, if a rapist is unarmed…. If you think someone is likely to attack you, look them in the eye and face and talk to them… if you get a good visual of how they look, you instantly becomes not so appealing to them. This is because they can be easily identified when caught. If someone grabs you from behind, pinch as hard as you can on the inside of their arm between their elbow and armpit.
One women use it on a guy who try to date rape her. The underarm pinch tore the skin and muscle strands of the guy, who needs stiches. I’m sure he no longer have any desire after that. If you get a chance, give the hardest kick you can to his groin. When you give him pain and cause him trouble, he is likely to be out of your way.
Use your elbow, it is the hardest part of your body and can give him much pain. In conclusion, just be on your guard when you should.
Rule no. 1: when in a hotel room alone, NEVER allow a man into your room unless you absolutely know what you are doing.
Rule no. 2: Never go to another man’s room alone unless you absolutely know what you are doing.
In all the interesting, exciting and disturbing stories that I have heard from cabin crew, it usually started with these 2 golden rules.
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