September 5, 2009
Are you happy?
Tonight’s mood is Beng. Yeah, typical Singaporean AH BENG in me mood. Just managed to get connected with some old army kakis through Facebook. So I feel like expressing my Bengness….
Come to think of it, we are all a little of everything aren’t we? I use to get mad when someone says I’m stupid.
These days, I tell them ” hey, you’re right, I can be sometimes “. When girls tells me I’m mean, rude and nasty, ” yeah, I kind of agree sometimes I am ” . When someone says I’m an asshole…. ” yeah, you know what, sometimes I can be too
” .
Because I come to realize that we human are multi faceted beings. There is an angel and a devil and everything in between in us.
Sometimes we’re really really nice when someone compliment about us, and since we like consistency, we continue to be nice to them. And there are other times when someone say we’re snob or unfriendly…. and we just had to continue to show them the darker side of us.
So, in BENGISM I ask “ Are you happy ? ”
Say oso dun listen
Listen oso dun understand
Dun understand oso dun ask
Ask already oso dun do
Do oso do wrong
Wrong oso dun admit
Admit oso dun correct
Correct oso not happy
Not happy oso dun say
and so the vicious cycle begins again… how to be happy you tell me?
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